The grass is not greener on the other side … the grass is greener where you water it. If you want things to change then you will have changes to make too.
Lets say for example you win the lottery. Most folks who win the lottery already started out as a person with a gambling issue. So most folks who win the lottery also spend the money very quickly because they never had a good relationship with money in the first place and the money leaves as fast as it was won.
Who you are at your core is who you will always be regardless of your circumstances. So as they say, if nothing changes, nothing changes.
Make your changes a mission, rather than a goal. Map out your core values in the areas of your life that matter most and good can only follow. Water your own grass and positive change will happen.